PROMISCUOUS PARTIES 

SWINGING ETIQUETTE 

The Golden Rule: "NO means NO".  Anyone may say "NO" for any reason at any time even if you are in the middle of a swinging encounter and have changed your mind and want to stop it right there! If you are in a situation that makes you uncomfortable, just say "No". Do not jeopardize your happiness and satisfaction with this lifestyle, or that of your partner, by doing something against your will just because you are afraid to say no.  The friendliest way is to say, "oh no thank you, but thanks for asking". Be honest initially, and you will avoid any misunderstandings. Don't forget that people's attitudes change and who knows? Maybe sometime in the future you may meet again with a different opinion.

Always treat one another with respect.  After all, this is a party!  Besides, you don't want to be rude or judgmental, because you wouldn't want it to happen to you. If you are rejected (and it happens to everyone, including women), Do NOT take personal offense. Rejection is a very personal thing, and it's almost as hard to reject as it is to be rejected. Honesty with each other is crucial. Who knows? You could end up with a great friendship if you handle the situation right.

Use your common sense and good judgment when you are involved in a swinging situation. Be kind, thoughtful, and sensitive. Swingers, couples and single women are people and have feelings too!

Deal with jealousy head on!   It is a normal reaction. Remember that this is strictly a physical and recreational pleasure, not an emotional one. Discover what triggers jealousy in your relationship and work it out together. It may mean modifying your activities, but your relationship together is not worth jeopardizing over swinging.

Always let your steady partner know that she/he is number one.  Arrive together, take time to caress them, touch base often, it makes one feel secure. And always leave together. Honor any and all prior understandings & rules you have made between each other, and be sure to COMMUNICATE with each other openly and honestly so there are no misunderstandings about your rules.

Pay attention to body language. There is more to interaction than words. Consider the body language of the person you are talking with and it will tell you more than the conversation you are having! Be sensitive to the person and you will know what makes them uncomfortable or happy and excited.

There is a dress code.  We hold the right to refuse entry to any guest if appropriate attire is not worn. We do not encourage athletic gear of any kind. We want you to look attractive to meet new acquaintances. Men may wear stylish jeans. No head gear allowed at all. Ladies must be feminine in attire. No butch attire will be allowed. We are looking for the sexy and sensual.

Demand absolute discretion. And be worthy of the same. Discretion is paramount in this lifestyle.  Privacy is imperative. Never, ever discuss details inappropriately. Everything you do, everything you see, MUST remain private.

State laws are in effect.  Any state law that prohibits the use of drugs, underage drinking, prostitution or any of the like are strictly prohibited at our events. You must be 21 years of age older to enter a Promiscuous event. If any of these laws are violated, or suspected of being violated, the guest will be escorted off the premises immediately by security.

If you have any questions, please email us at:
promiscuousevents@yahoo.com